(Disclaimer, This post is inspired by the picture above. I do not own the picture or the words above, I just was inspired by it and wrote the words below.)
We as humans are pretty stuck on this concept of this list that describes the person we are going to be with.
dark hair, light hair.
And it goes on and on. We build this person in our heads, and pretty quickly dismiss anyone who does not fit these requirements. At one point in my life I was the same way. In my mind I saw what I considered the perfect man in my head. his striking features and charismatic personality. And I thought, at one point, that I had found him. "This guy is everything on my list. Just what I wanted."
But little did I know then, that God has SO much more for me than a silly artificial list that I had created.
The person you are going to marry is so much more than the color of their hair. So much more than the size of their pants. So much more than their height, and the way they talk.
I, personally, Put my heart in God's hands, and trust him to let me be with the Godly man he wants for me.
Don't let silly words in a list define who you love. As @michelllewang said, "People arent lists."