Being twenty has had crazy highs and crazy lows. From losing my grandfather to adventuring across the country alone, and even spending incredible time with family and creating amazing memories. But overall a few things have stuck out to me this year.
1. Love yourself.
There is no way you can learn to love other people if you cant figure out how to love yourself. Take care of yourself. And take time for yourself.
2. Life moves on.
Whether you like it or not. Life keeps moving and going. So if youre felling trapped in your current perdiciment, youre not. Like will keep going and rolling so go for the ride, change what you can and accept what you cant.
3. Own it.
This kind of comes back to loving yourself. Basically work hard, and own it. Dont feel the need to dumb yourself down, or act like your hard work isnt a big deal. If youre going to school, working, and still managing to stay afloat.. Own it.
4. Character development isnt just in stranger thigns.
Of course I cant go without mention Steve and his incredible character development for this season. but the same thing is working with you too. Changing is a good thing and its okay to let it happen. And its fun looking back every few months to see how youve changed and your opinions. Its fun. Let it happen.
5. Dont worry about other peoples opinions.
I know, I know. Cliche. I get it. But the older I get the less I care what people think. I stop making chioces based on other people. Its not an over night change, but you'll figure out that everyone is too worried about themselves to worry about you.